Hi Elizabeth,

Gosh, what a mess for you to experience. I’m so sorry for what you and your kids are going through. I relate to much of the aftermath. It’s so difficult to see the effects on our children, which is why many people (including me) waited.

Only you can get through this however you need to, and you’re finding those sources of strength. I appreciate you sharing — it helps others find their way.

One of the biggest lessons for me was learning not to depend on him for anything, which is what marriage is all about — depending on each other. Ripping that away is like pulling off half our skin.

Just remember, it grows back. xx